This Is What Happiness Looks Like
When the hustle of the day slows is when you can find your authentic self. Take note of what makes your fire light for this is what happiness looks like. When we do what we love we heal this world. Speak your truth, be your truth, live your truth. Choose to live accordingly.
Life is about choices and our life is what it is - because of choices.
If I want to make changes I start with myself. It is very easy to point fingers and place blame in our life. I think once you take responsibility - that you had something to do with the circumstances of your life, then that is exactly when your life will evolve. Self reflection is one of the most honest and real things you can do. It's healthy, necessary, and humbling. It is a true reflection of your life because you begin to realize everything you are looking at is a direct result because of you. While you cannot control others, while you cannot control all that life will throw at you, albeit cruel or unfair - you can control how you choose to react. And that will determine your outcome.
The beauty and rawness of this honesty can be overwhelming - but you have to do it to get at the core of the matter - to fully understand how you can evolve and begin to live your true authentic self - what you do best, and how can you apply this to life. It's okay if your life is not what you think it should be at this current moment. It's okay if your life is different from others. It does not make you more or less of a person. You are worthy to live fully. You are worthy and valid to be happy. Find your success and worth from your actions. But, whatever you do - choose happiness. Even if you don't believe it at first. Choose happiness. Say it out loud, keep saying it until it's a self assertive decision. Once you have destined yourself, you will make a conscience decision through your actions to result in happiness. This is the beginning of living our authentic self. This is when we begin to live fully and with purpose. We shine when we are happy and as a result we offer our best to the world when are fully living. Happiness doesn't happen - we make it happen.
I believe life's hard knocks are often a catalyst for self-realization, a revelation of inner power - and the beginning of inspiring stories of triumph over adversity. The choice is yours, and it's simple. Own it. Own your life. As far as I know, we do this once, and I don't want to settle. Keep your priorities straight. Don't look too far into the future, and be prepared to get into the motor and journey on.
You also have to believe in the magic of new beginnings, to not be afraid of change to the point you remain stagnant. I hate seeing people who have stopped living. Don't do that. Don't settle. Don't drink the kool-aid thinking you're doing the world any favors. We need your passion, we need your drive, we need your light in this world.
Take the good, take the bad. Take the fails and learn. You have your thing - now go live it.